Beyond the considerable emotional pain, the end of a marriage is legally complex. This information reviews alternatives to divorce and failing these, the procedures for obtaining a divorce. Consult our office if your marriage is ending. You will need sound professional advice to determine child custody, financial support, and make a fair division of the property of the marriage.
Depending on your circumstances, you may wish to consider alternatives to divorce – marriage counseling, annulment or separation.
Many couples try counseling from a marriage counselor, social worker or psychotherapist as an alternative to divorce. Such counselors are trained to help couples resolve differences. The counselor may be able to help you and your spouse learn communication skills and a better understanding of one another to prevent your marriage from failing. Marriage counseling can be useful when couples find their problems have begun to affect their compatibility with each other. Counseling may also keep a relationship with your spouse from worsening even if divorce is unavoidable.
An annulment is a court ruling that a marriage was never legally valid. A marriage can only be annulled if there was serious defect at the time of the marriage ceremony. In most states, marriages can be annulled if one of the parties was under age at the time of the marriage, if a spouse could not consummate the marriage, if consent was obtained fraudulently, or if the marriage was bigamous or incestuous. People also may seek annulments for religious reasons or because marriage caused a party to lose spousal support from an earlier marriage. Issues of child custody or property division may also be addressed by the court as part of the proceeding.
If you and your spouse separate, it may be best to enter into a separation agreement or obtain a court order of separation. A separation agreement is a contract between you and your spouse that can provide for spousal support, child custody, visitation rights and a division of the property acquired during the marriage. The agreement can be enforced by courts if a party does not comply. If the parties later divorce, it may be included in the divorce judgment.
Common grounds for a fault divorce are adultery, bigamy, cruelty, desertion, incest and insanity. In addition, many states, including Michigan, have adopted “no fault” divorce laws that allow divorce without showing that one spouse was at fault. In Michigan, a divorce can frequently be obtained because of incompatibility of irreconcilable differences or if a spouses live apart for a period of time – often one year.
In certain circumstances, a fault divorce may offer a better legal strategy for you. Our office can guide you on the best way to proceed.
To file for divorce in Michigan, you or your spouse must be a resident of the State of Michigan for at least 180 days prior to filing a Complaint for Divorce. You or your spouse must also be a resident of the county where you intend to file for divorce, at least 10 days prior to filing the Complaint for Divorce.
Before a divorce is granted in Michigan, the Court must find that there has been a breakdown in the marriage relationship to the extent that the parties cannot live together as husband and wife. The Plaintiff (or the Defendant if he/she filed a counter-claim) must appear in Court to show that this breakdown exists. A divorce in Michigan can be granted even if one of the parties does not want the divorce.
A Michigan divorce case begins with the filing of the Complaint for Divorce (“Complaint”) and a Summons (a form required by the State to start any civil action) also to be filed with the Court. The party who files the Complaint is called the “Plaintiff”, the other party is called the “Defendant”. The current filing fee for Divorce in Michigan is $150.00, plus an additional fee of $80 if the parties have a minor child or children together.
Sometimes, the Plaintiff will also have ex parte (pronounced x-par-tay) orders entered by the Court along with the Complaint. An ex parte order is an order that is signed by the judge without a hearing, based upon the allegations made in a written document, in this case, the Complaint. The types of ex parte orders that may be entered with a new divorce case relate to custody, child support, restraining orders on transferring of assets, or interim orders keeping the status quo. Since an ex parte order is entered by the Court without a hearing, the Defendant has an opportunity to object to the ex parte order within fourteen (14) days from receipt of the order.
Once the Defendant has been served, he/she has 21 days (if the Defendant was personally served) or 28 days (if the Defendant was served by certified mail) to file an Answer to the Complaint (“Answer”).
An Answer is a written pleading, filed with the Court and the Plaintiff’s attorney, which responds to each of the allegations made in the Complaint. If the Defendant fails to timely file an Answer with the Court, the Plaintiff can ask that a “default” be entered. A default is where the Court allows a Judgment to be entered without the consent of the Defendant because the Defendant has failed to respond. If a default is entered, a case can proceed without the Defendant and a “Default Judgment of Divorce” that complies with all applicable statutes and court rules can be entered with the Court, which would essentially end the case.
Unfortunately, most cases are not that simple. In most cases, the Defendant either files an answer or appears at a hearing in the case and the case proceeds with negotiation towards settling the case.
You cannot get a “quick divorce” in Michigan because we have mandatory waiting periods. In a divorce where the parties have no minor children together, a Judgment of Divorce cannot be entered until at least sixty (60) days has passed from the date that a Complaint was filed with the Court. In a divorce where the parties have minor children together, a Court will require you to wait one hundred and eighty (180) days from the date of the filing of the Complaint before a Judgment of Divorce can be entered. In cases with minor children, if both parties agree, it may be possible to waive the last four (4) months of the 180 day waiting period. It is up to the Judge in each case to determine whether or not a portion of the waiting period will be waived. To waive a portion of the waiting period, the Judge must find that it is in the best interests of the minor child(ren) that a portion of the waiting period should be waived.
If both parties agree to all the terms of the divorce, including custody, child support, spousal support and property division, a “Consent Judgment of Divorce” that complies with all applicable statutes and court rules can be entered with the Court when the proper waiting period has passed.
Unfortunately, most cases are more complicated than that. In most Michigan divorce cases, there are at least some contested issues. Contesting a divorce in Michigan involves mediation and possibly a trial. If the parties do not agree as to the assets and debts of the marriage, or the values of the assets and debts, discovery will have to be done. Discovery is a process for obtaining information, by such means as interrogatories, depositions or subpoenas. The purpose of discovery is for each party to find out information about the other party. Once that information is obtained, the parties may then try to negotiate a settlement again.
If the Plaintiff and Defendant still disagree on how to settle their case, the Court will still encourage settlement and require that the parties attend mediation. Sometimes, parties will try to settle a case without formal mediation, by having an informal meeting with just the parties and their attorneys. If this is not an option, then formal mediation is the next step. Formal mediation is a process where a neutral attorney is appointed to hear both sides of the story and recommend a resolution. Generally the Plaintiff’s attorney and the Defendant’s attorney agree upon who will be appointed to mediate the case. If the attorneys cannot agree upon a mediator, then the judge will appoint one.
Formal mediation can be costly. The Plaintiff and Defendant pay the mediator hourly for his/her time. In addition, the Plaintiff and the Defendant will be paying their own attorneys for their time to prepare for the mediation and attend the mediation. Preparing for the mediation includes drafting a “mediation summary”. Prior to attending mediation, each attorney submits a mediation summary to the mediator. The mediation summary provides the mediator with an outline of the case and that party’s version on how the case should be settled.
The mediator will read each party’s mediation summary and then the mediator will meet with the parties and their attorneys. The mediator will then attempt to encourage a resolution to the case. If a resolution cannot be made, the mediator will make a recommendation. If the parties do not agree to the recommendation then the matter is scheduled for binding arbitration or trial.
Binding arbitration is somewhat similar to mediation in that it doesn’t take place before a judge. In binding arbitration, the facts are presented by both sides before an independent fact finder, rather than before the judge, just like mediation. But in binding arbitration, the independent fact finder makes a final decision (award). Then the arbitration award is entered by the Court in the form of a Judgment of Divorce. Most arbitration awards are final cannot be appealed.
Very few divorce cases in Michigan actually go to trial as most cases are settled at mediation. If a divorce in Michigan goes to trial, it may be very lengthy and costly. In a trial, all aspects of the case that are contested must be placed into evidence. Generally a trial consists of:
Opening statements: The attorneys summarize for the court what the issues are and what they intend to prove. Sometimes these statements are waived.
Plaintiff’s case: The Plaintiff presents evidence in support of their claims.
Defendant’s case: The Defendant presents evidence in support of their claims.
Closing arguments: The attorneys summarize for the court the evidence presented.
The judge’s ruling. (Generally on a different day).
Once the judge provides his/her ruling it is then reduced to the form of a written Judgment and entered with the Court.
Once the Judgment of Divorce is entered, it is a final property settlement, unless it is appealed based on a procedural error or an error made by the Court. After a Judgment of Divorce is entered, child support, parenting time and custody can be revisited by the circuit court if there is a change in circumstance. Sometimes, after a Judgment of Divorce is entered, a party may have return to Court to enforce issues regarding the property settlement, custody, parenting time or child support payments.
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